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I’m concerned that I’m getting involved with someone with limited goals and a dead end job?

He’s 34, divorced and has a child. He’s kind and seems to have a good heart. Overall a good person but hasn’t been very ambitious it seems. He has his own little studio apartment, a car and a ‘whatever’ job–and thats it.
I’m 30 and also a single parent with my own little apartment and car but have a decent profession I can count on, goals and ambitions.
I always thought that when I found my ’significant’ other he would be more established.
I finally feel a connection and chemistry but am afraid that this relationship can possibly be a mistake (although its in the beginning stages).
I’m concerned because I wouldn’t want finances to be a problem if things got serious.
I don’t need riches, just a comfortable life.
I’m not sure if I should stay away or keep letting things evolve (and become more complicated).
What should I think and consider?